Frequently Asked Questions

People can have some funny misconceptions of what hypnosis is, how it works and what to expect. First off, it's not a "magic pill." Hypnosis is not going to magically wipe away your personality and replace it with a new one. When we are done working together, you will still be you, only better. Think of it as reducing those things inside you that block the way and increasing those traits you have to help you achieve. Over the years, I have encountered the people who want it to force them into doing those things they can't or will not do. If you have a big block on that issue, nothing I say or do is going to force you into doing it. But, I can slowly change your mind about it. Take working out for an example. Many people see it as a chore. A hassle that they have to deal with in order to get them to a particular goal. This is one of the reasons fads and diets don't work. You are mentally preparing yourself to fail when you set out like this. You have a goal in mind. Perhaps a certain weight, or a particular inch that you want to reach on your waist, chest or bicep. And you shoot for that goal. Day in and day out. The problem with this mindset is that once you reach that goal, the subconscious says "WHEW! That was a lot of work! I'm so glad that's over! Now I don't have to work so hard."

For real change, lasting change that will help you for decades, the trick is to change your mind about the process that keeps you fit and trim. Instead of finding solace in those habits that keep you from your goal, we shift that emotional soothing to the process of working out. It's a great time to go "brainless." Like reading a book, getting lost in a movie, or losing yourself in a hobby you enjoy. How many hours have you lost just watching TV, or playing a video game? If you have that ability, you can use hypnosis to focus that talent on a new outlet.

What if you felt about your workout the same way you felt about your favorite pastime? Losing yourself in the joy of challenging yourself, the feeling of manliness as you sweat and strain, the way your pecs feel so damned pumped on chest day? What if working out cleared your mind, soothed your soul, and purged you of all the stress, frustration, and tension of the day? This is merely one example of how perception can be shifted.

Hypnosis is marvelous for this type of shift in thinking and can be applied to many, many different areas of your life.

I hear this statement a lot.  I think it comes from an unrealistic idea of what a Hypnotic trance truly is.  Most people tend to see hypnosis as what they have seen on TV or in movies.  Or perhaps they are expecting something to happen to them like some of the hypnoerotic stories they have read.  That's all fantasy folks.  The truth of the matter is that you have hypnotized yourself more times than you can count.  Hypnosis is nothing more than a 'relaxed concentration'.  If you have ever lost yourself in a good book, a movie, in a video game, lost track of time with good friends, or stopped paying attention to every little thing that happened around you while driving to work; congratulations, you have been tranced.  Or rather, you blocked out the rest of the world for a while and focused on what you had to do for a while.  It's a state of mind that allows you to quiet down the mind and focus on what you are doing.

A hypnotic session can range from a subject being completely out of it, to just lying there with your eyes closed thinking "This isn't working".  As long as you are relaxing and listening, you can gain the benefits of the session.   And getting into that tranced state of mind is a skill.  And, just like any other skill, the more you practice, the better you can get at it.

I do have many paying clients, yet, I am also aware that not everyone I speak to is going to be one.  I see myself as part of the greater hypno-fetish community and I welcome the opportunity to meet and speak to anyone who wants to discuss hypnosis, erotic hypnosis, hypnotherapy and its uses.   Now, due to my busy schedule, I do need to run everything through my scheduler to keep it all organized.  I just don't have time to schedule times to meet with emails back and forth covering who knows how many time zones in order to find a time that works for us both.  Some people are worried that I might use their personal information, so if you don't want to share any of your personal stuff, you can always fill out the fields with filler info (ie Phone: 123-456-7890).  Just know that the email field will be sending you confirmation emails when you complete the booking.

This is work for Me.  I charge the standard industry rate of $100.00 per hour Session.  I put My considerable talents and expertise into what we are doing in order to assist you into becoming what you want to be.  It's My job.  Ask yourself this; Would you go to your job if you were asked to do it for free?

Absolutely not.  I want you to consider the consultation as a virtual coffee meeting with someone.  Now imagine if that person showed up with a bag over their head.  Or that person refused to talk.  Would you get an accurate idea of who that person is?  I doubt you would.  One of the reasons behind the consult is so I can get a feel for you.  I want to know if we will be able to work together.  If I am the only one participating in the conversation, I'm not getting a very clear picture of you, am I?

Follow this link.  Book yourself a consultation.  I won't work with anyone unless I have a chance to meet with them (either online or in person) and determine if we are a match.  Also, I want to work with people who want to work, so this is your first test.  If a potential subject can't follow the instructions and book an appointment (and show up for it on time), then that subject most likely won't be the right match for Me.

I do My best to adhere to a strict confidentiality policy.  Whereas I am not required to follow HIPAA standards, I do conduct my business as if I do.  I will not discuss with you the things/events/progress of another client.  Just as I will not discuss what I do with you to anyone else.  The only leeway I will give to that stipulation is to refer vaguely to “a subject” worked with “this situation” and focus more on the situation, its progression and the techniques I used to work with it.  Also, I feel that anything posted to social media is fair game to refer to.  But in that case, I would ask first.

This question also falls under confidentiality.  The exact number of My current clients is not something you need to know.

No.  I take My responsibility to you and your development very seriously.   I have no trouble if you want to be naked for our sessions, but be informed that this is not going to be a role-playing thing where you lie on the bed, stroking yourself while pretending to be tranced.  I want you to experience REAL hypnosis, REAL trance, and REAL measurable change in your life.

This is a very common question.  And the answer is complicated.  I could say, "It will take as long as it takes."  But, you probably want more of a hard answer.  The problem with adding a numerical value to the sessions is that your subconscious latches onto that number.  It will make it a rule that it will take all those sessions to finally accomplish the task.  Even if only one will do the trick.  For example:  When I was just offering Smoking sessions, a great number of My clients would quit smoking in just one session.  Yet, when I offered a three session deal, that stopped.  It was rare that anyone would quit completely after the first session.  Why?  Because that person’s subconscious is now saying, "Well - I still have two more sessions before I have to quit entirely".  We tend to want to hold onto those things we indulge in as long as possible and if you give your subconscious the opportunity to justify putting off the inevitable conclusion, it will take it.  It's like a kid waiting until the last possible moment to watch TV before mom counts to that final number.

I have known other hypnotists who give a high number to that question, i.e., 10, 15, 25.  Because they want the client to continue coming back and keep spending money.  There is absolutely no way to know how a client is going to respond until that first session.  Are you going to go under easily? Are you 100% ready to give up that habit or make that change?  Are you going to go along with the suggestions, or fighting Me along the way because you only wish for something, but are not willing to make the effort to actually force yourself to change?  There is a lot to consider and if I gave you a number, I would be lying.  I feel that our working relationship will work better if I don't lie to you.

That is a tough question to answer.  Each person is different and each person has their own set of likes, dislikes, desires, interests, blockages, habits, pitfalls, etc.  There is a lot to take into consideration when I am working with a client.  But that is My job.  Like software running in the background, I weigh the variables to help a client get pointed in the right direction to obtain what they want.

If you are asking what do I enjoy the most, I really get off on the transformation.  Hypnotizing a subject and shaping them toward the goal or outcome they have asked for gives Me the greatest satisfaction.

Why do I do this?  It's a good question.  What are My motives?  This is something you should ask yourself whenever you decide to let someone get into your head.  When you work with an amateur, who is doing this for personal gratification, it is probably the most important question.  9 times out of 10, this person has His own desires, proclivities, and fetishes.  And He will most likely want to instill those in you because they are hot to Him.  I don't see a problem in that, as long as you are paired up with someone with similar interests and He is upfront about what He wants to do with you.  What gets Me off?  Simple.  Transformation.  Altering you in any way, mentally or physically.  Perhaps that sets me a bit apart from the rest.  I don't have set criteria for my subjects, rather I take the lead from my subject.  I don't really care where we go, only that we DO go.  So you need to ask yourself what you want out of our time together.  What kind of changes do you want to see in your life?

I will say that with a majority of my clients I have done the following to mutual satisfaction: Transforming with more self-confidence, more self-esteem, and shaping the body with more muscle or strength.  Those three things tend to happen most often with 90% of My clients.  You can proceed here for a more in-depth list.

Hypnosis has always been a fascinating subject for me.  Once I started, as an amateur, I was hooked.  Then, once I discovered that I was good at it, I decided to train for it, professionally.  I spent 7 years practicing Hypnotherapy as a living before I even discovered that there was a community of people out there into Erotic Hypnosis.   Now I do most of my work in the erotic arena.

The term Erotic Hypnosis can be assigned to any hypnosis work that pertains to a sexual matter.  It can be therapeutic (i.e., Erectile Dysfunction, improving skills, developing new fetishes) and it can used in actual play (i.e., establishing a trigger word to cause your body to react)  For example, I once gave a subject the trigger words 'Slutty Hole'.  Every time I (or any Man in authority) said this, he physically felt a tongue working around his hole and his body responded accordingly with an intense desire for more.  In another example, I once gave a subject with a partner a chance to relive those first few euphoric weeks with his man.   Not an actual regression, but reawakening all that exciting discovery and excitement as if it were all new again.  The tricks, triggers, and therapeutic applications are as varied and complex as the subjects I have worked with.